When Thrifting Backfires

 
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It's no secret that I'm a huge fan of thrifting clothes (buying and selling), but sometimes the process doesn't go as planned. I recently spent an entire weekend sifting through my shameful plethora of unwanted clothes, crammed into my tiny Brooklyn closet, in order to (hopefully) make some money thrifting what I could and donating the rest.

Want to know how much I made from Beacon's Closet – my local Bushwick, Brooklyn thrift shop – which I was SURE would be a gold mine? -$25... Yup, you read that right, NEGATIVE twenty-five dollars...my plan totally backfired on me and I spent money at the thrift store.

The feeling of being handed back my giant Ikea blue bag of previously cherished clothing from the cashier can only be described as one word, rejection. Thoughts of middle school embarrassment rushed back to me. Wandering around the lunchroom, brace-faced with nowhere to sit. The cool kids giggling in the corner. When I snapped back to reality, I realized, I've come a LONG way since then. I then reminded myself, who cares what these people think? We have to learn from our mistakes to better our chances next time. 

I accepted the fact that thrifting is a lot harder than being a thrifter (my kind of hunting and gathering). It's a matter of opinion, surrendering your clothes to another's judgment and being prepared for the potential let down. However; I now know that there are ways of increasing your luck. This includes:

  • Familiarity: Frequenting the same store...never hurts to make some insider friends
  • Quantity: Bringing fewer clothes (without the Ikea bag) 
  • Timing: Presenting seasonal selections (no crop tops in winter) 
  • Trial & Error: Hitting many different spots to up your chances (and be patient) 
  • Research: Look at the brands and styles in the store and align yours with this

On the bright side of this unfortunate day, I ended up with this awesome Rebecca Minkoff, plaid pea coat, a new favorite in my wardrobe! Time to do some more research in my favorite shops. 

XOXO Alex 

Photography: Nat Belkov

 
 
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Home for the Holidays

 
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For the second time as a New York resident, I got to leave the frigid city conditions for Winter Park, ironically in Central Florida (where my Mom lives). Minus the occasional family bickering (on account of being together WAY more than we're used to), we shut ourselves off from our busy daily routines and celebrated with an incredible dinner, gifts, and the neighborhood holiday party. Although the picturesque holiday decor didn't include snow, it did include the beautiful annual Christmas tree, floating in the center of our neighborhood lake. 

My trip wasn't over just yet, I zipped down to South Florida to spend the remainder of my trip in my original hometown with my Dad's family – the typical divorced parents narrative. I learned, yet again, to always bring a disguise when going to the mall, to avoid any dreaded high-school run-ins, and the occasional middle school one (even worse). 

Want to know my favorite part of going home? Getting to hang out with best friend, my 94-year old Nana who understands me like none other. Another highlight was laying out by the beautiful intercoastal waterway, accompanied by W magazine and the beating hot rays. Finally, I enjoyed yet another lovely holiday meal, this time to celebrate a belated Hanukkah filled with homemade latkas, and more family and friends. 

Black Slacks: Versona

Red Hat: NY Street Vendor 

Patterned Top: Gift from Thailand 

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